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Verlag:
Self Publishing
Jahr:
2024
Seitenzahl:
197
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Taschenbuch
Sprache:
Englisch
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Artikelbeschreibung
Workbook with 43 exercises & Guidebook for beginners to advanced knowledge on attachment styles.
Do you shift between wanting connection and avoiding it?
Does the idea of a committed relationship excite you, but then when the possibility presents itself, you sabotage, leaving the relationship?
Do you struggle to trust and constantly expect or look for signs of betrayal?
Do you cling one minute, then push someone away the next, feeling guilty and wondering why these behaviors are used?
Dating with disorganized (fearful avoidant) attachment can start off seemingly fine, but often quickly prompts internal chaos as one wants love and connection while trying to maintain a sense of self. It may appear in simple terms like, "Come here; now go away." The disorganized attachment style has traits of both the anxious-preoccupied and the dismissive avoidant. You may cling and seek closeness if your partner seems uninterested, or you may figure "why bother?", giving into negative beliefs, or you may push others away when they get too close, or become jealous and controlling, finding it hard to regulate your emotions. You may find yourself constantly giving to others, ignoring your needs and boundaries, feeling as though you've been taken advantage of when the same isn't given to you, creating resentment. You may find yourself in the same types of relationships where it just never works out, or wonder why you resort to sabotaging to feel safe outside a relationship, but then have regrets soon after. The triggers and coping mechanisms have reasons behind them, and when awareness is given, healing can begin. Instead of relationships seeming like rollercoasters, constantly having highs and lows, learn how to nurture a loving and trusting relationship.
Do you shift between wanting connection and avoiding it?
Does the idea of a committed relationship excite you, but then when the possibility presents itself, you sabotage, leaving the relationship?
Do you struggle to trust and constantly expect or look for signs of betrayal?
Do you cling one minute, then push someone away the next, feeling guilty and wondering why these behaviors are used?
Dating with disorganized (fearful avoidant) attachment can start off seemingly fine, but often quickly prompts internal chaos as one wants love and connection while trying to maintain a sense of self. It may appear in simple terms like, "Come here; now go away." The disorganized attachment style has traits of both the anxious-preoccupied and the dismissive avoidant. You may cling and seek closeness if your partner seems uninterested, or you may figure "why bother?", giving into negative beliefs, or you may push others away when they get too close, or become jealous and controlling, finding it hard to regulate your emotions. You may find yourself constantly giving to others, ignoring your needs and boundaries, feeling as though you've been taken advantage of when the same isn't given to you, creating resentment. You may find yourself in the same types of relationships where it just never works out, or wonder why you resort to sabotaging to feel safe outside a relationship, but then have regrets soon after. The triggers and coping mechanisms have reasons behind them, and when awareness is given, healing can begin. Instead of relationships seeming like rollercoasters, constantly having highs and lows, learn how to nurture a loving and trusting relationship.
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Relationship beziehung ratgeber dizorganized fearful avoidant
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